1 post tagged “getting along”

Why do you think it is some people don't get along with you?

Oh, that's a tough one that requires some thought... I think in general I'm pretty easy to get along with, but I really don't like people who behave as I did in my late teens or early 20's... but they are in their 30's or older: attention whores, show offs, enough about me - more about me, etc.  I think that my reaction to these types (impatience, occasional disgust) makes them view me as a lofty bitch.

Is it too easy and perhaps immature to say jealousy breeds hostility in my 'peer' (oh, I typo'ed peep, that's funny...) group? Considering the lack of adult behavior by some people I know, I'd have to say not.

I also think that it is easier for some people to judge me, than try to understand me.

The people that don't get along with me are so self involved, self-centred, and self-important that I'm sure I don't enter their thoughts unless there is some nasty gossip that they have either caused or exaggerated upon.

I will say that it is a difficult to look within yourself to see the faults that others hold againts you. This is an interesting QotD, and I've read some other blogger's replies which pretty much glaze over the idea with 'I'm a bitch!'

Hmm, something to consider... let me know if you have any insight on yourself...